I’m assuming you’ve all heard Ryan Reynolds and Scarlett Johansson have gotten a divorce.
Yesterday, they wrote on a joint statement, saying: "After long and careful consideration on both our parts, we've decided to end our marriage. We entered our relationship with love and it's with love and kindness we leave it. While privacy isn't expected, it's certainly appreciated."
After their two-year marriage, Ryan, 34, and Scarlett, 28, simply grew apart with their busy lives. The divorce was a decision they’ve made, without any third party involved.
What else can I say about long-distance relationships, as a woman? They’re difficult, no matter how hard you try to be on the same page. I’ve been there once, twice actually. One thing’s for sure is that when you’re not in the same place with your beau, or when you don’t set some time to keep in touch, communicate well, and just talk about things – important things... mundane things... you’re bound to lead different lives somewhere along the way. It’s not just about the different time zones; it’s about the humongous ambivalence taking up that space in between your place and his/hers. Once you get lost while trying to fit in some time to figure out the page where you’re at in your relationship, there’s an emotional baggage dragging you down, weighing your back as you try to move on, burden-heavy like a wasted year passing you by, or some leftovers of cold pizzas.Sooner or later, definitely, maybe, the home you’ve built in each other – the comfort zone, your lovely homeplace – can no longer exist.
Which is sad.
However, let’s look on the bright side. Ryan Reynolds is now AVAILABLE. At least I can dreamily flirt my way on the written words of the sexiest man alive, writing nonsensical comments that will never let the writer know how big of a boy crush I have for this man. Oh boy.
I simply fly, with Ai.
Stace
